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 I decided to start this blog not because I have all the answers, but because I have many stories, thoughts, and reflections that don’t always fit into neat categories.


Life, after all, is made up of little moments — between the lines of routine and ritual, of silence and conversation, of service and solitude.


This blog is my *Etcetera* — my place for everything else:  

the things I think about,  

the people I admire,  

the places I go,  

the questions I ask.


I hope you find something here that makes you pause, smile, or think a little deeper.


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