Father's Day

This Father’s Day, I’ve been reflecting on something quite moving: even Jesus, the Son of God, humbled Himself and obeyed Joseph—His earthly father, a mere creature like all of us. It struck me that our fathers, like Joseph, are imperfect men. They may falter, they may not always get it right, but that doesn’t mean they’re unworthy of our love or even our obedience at times. We honor them not because they are flawless, but because of who they are in our lives—fathers given to us, to guide, protect, and love in the best way they know how.

I cannot help but remember my late father, Cornelio. He was, to some extent, a stern man—not showy with his affection—but he was deeply a family man. Responsible, a good provider, and a respectable gentleman. I was truly blessed that he showered us with great love, even if it was quiet and steady rather than loud and demonstrative. My only hope is that I was able to reciprocate that love in return. To those who greeted me and all fathers with a “Happy Father’s Day,” thank you very much. Your kind words are deeply appreciated.

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