After Christmas, Reflections into the New Year

 

It’s official—the Christmas season of 2025 has come to a close. Little by little, the decorations are taken down and stored away. Our Christmas tree now stands bare, its finery stripped away much like a woman removing her “gargantilyas” after a grand, elegant evening. The Christmas lights, nativity scenes, and nutcracker dolls are now carefully packed for another year. Knowing us Filipinos, they will surely be welcomed back as early as September, right on cue with the first notes of Jose Mari Chan’s carols.

For me, this past season was defined by fellowship and friendship. I followed my tradition of meeting with three different groups of friends, where the air was filled with jokes, laughter, and the latest news. We even achieved our goal of dining in various Michelin-starred and Michelin-selected restaurants—a wonderful culinary highlight to the year.

Our Rotary Club Christmas party was another standout. While we are united in service, it is the warm fellowship that truly makes these gatherings special. The food, drinks, games, and genuine camaraderie among friends remind me that the "service" we do is fueled by the bonds we share.

Hospitality in the Highlands. Mid-December took us to Baguio at the invitation of my brother and his wife, both retired doctors from the U.S. They welcomed us into their newly built, minimalist residence—a home that was not only elegant but exuded a deep sense of hospitality and comfort that made us feel immediately at ease. My brother enjoys cooking, and every meal he prepared felt like a fine dining experience, thoughtfully paired with the right wine.

We also visited Mt. Camisong Forest Park and Events with them. Walking through the park, the scent of pine trees brought back vivid memories of the "old Baguio." It is a peaceful sanctuary where one can truly unwind. I was particularly impressed by how they look after seniors and PWDs, providing electric carts to ensure everyone can enjoy the nature trails.

A Symphony of Lights. The festive spirit was also alive in the beautiful displays across the city. My wife and I made our annual stop at Rustan’s to see their trees decorated in shades of green, gold, and pink—always a masterclass in balance and elegance. Driving through the entrances of various residential villages, I was struck by the creativity of the gates. One in particular had a wonderful “may dating" impact—a certain appeal, with its symphony of blinking lanterns.

During one dinner with foodie friends at a Michelin restaurant in Balmori Suites, Rockwell, I saw the beautiful Christmas display and thought to myself that I must bring my wife to see it, as she truly appreciates nice décor. Later, when we returned together, she marveled at the massive tree at the center of the mall. It was packed so densely with yellow lights that it glowed like a solid tower of gold, guarded by charming white bears and stuffed dogs of different breeds, adding charm to the scene.

Yet, amidst the Michelin meals and the brilliant lights, the most enduring part of the season for me was the New Year’s Day homily by Fr. Ramon Bautista, SJ.

The Lesson of the "Why." His message was a powerful reminder as we face a new year. He suggested that happiness shouldn't actually be the primary goal of our lives. Often, we think that if we achieve success or surround ourselves with comfort, happiness will follow. But Fr. Bautista explained that happiness is actually a by-product of living with purpose.

He spoke about the "why" of our lives. When we focus purely on ourselves—on achievements or convenience—we often end up feeling empty. However, when we put purpose first—through giving, sharing, and serving—happiness naturally finds us. Using Mary, the Mother of God, as an example, he showed how saying "yes" to a higher calling leads to a much deeper joy.

As I look ahead to 2026, I’m carrying that thought with me. I want to wish everyone a year that isn't just "happy," but one that is truly purposeful and meaningful.